Rosie is a university student studying social work in Bournemouth. We’re extremely lucky to have her on placement with us until January 2019. Below Rosie tells us a bit about herself, how she found out about Shine, and what social work can mean to those living with cancer.
Hi everyone, I’m Rosie! I’m 33, and in June 2016 I was diagnosed with breast cancer for which I now receive ongoing maintenance treatment because they think it has spread to my spine. At the time of writing though, I currently have no evidence of disease!
When I was diagnosed, I had just finished my first year at Bournemouth University studying social work. I took two years out and had pretty much written myself off, let alone the thought of getting back to uni! Fast forward to 29 June of this year and it was the first day of my second year of university, and I was on placement with Shine!
I’m very lucky that my uni let me start placement early, do it part time, (it will take me into the beginning of January) and choose where I went. I’m equally lucky that Shine are so flexible with when and where I complete my 70-day placement so that I can fit it around my treatment, appointments, and fatigue. As I write now, with my feet up on my sofa, cat and chocolate to hand, I really couldn’t ask for more!
Before my diagnosis it would not have occurred to me that, once I had qualified as a social worker, I would like to work with young adults who have had a cancer diagnosis. In fact, the thought of it would probably have terrified me: what if I said the wrong thing? And surely it would all just be really depressing, right? Wrong!
As soon as I was diagnosed, I found Shine through a good friend of mine who was already part of the ‘cancer crew’. The support that I felt was unbelievable. Just knowing
that there were other people out there in my age group who get what it’s all about is all that I needed. I was sold! It’s the informal peer support aspect that, for me, is the best part. We meet up where people our age want to meet up, and we do what people our age want to do. We talk about cancer if we want to, but it’s not forced and awkward and, most of all, it’s actually fun and a light relief from the usual drudgery that is living with cancer.
I had gone into my degree thinking that, once qualified, I would work with children and young people because that is where the majority of my work experience had been based. However, now I have a new group of fabulously ‘Shiny’ people to be passionate about. I believe that my personal experiences can have a positive impact on others in similar situations. Just before starting placement I was really excited to become a joint Network Leader for Dorset. I love it and I will continue to do it long after placement has finished!
Social work comes with a lot of preconceived ideas, stigmas, and a veil of mystery that the tabloid press does nothing to dispel. With their constant scare-mongering they would have you believe that we are all some kind of crazed child-catchers!
So what exactly IS social work – and why is it relevant to you?
Social work is a lot of things but this statement sums it up quite nicely.
As we all know, life can be turned upside down in an instant, and when that happens we all need someone to reach out to, whether that’s for practical or emotional support. I am really lucky to have a fantastic specialist social worker based in my hospital oncology unit, but sadly these are very few and far between. His role is funded by a charity and he has helped me with things like filling out benefits forms and making sure that I have an up-to-date seatbelt exemption (I need this because of the placement of my portacath).
Shine fills that much-needed gap for young adults with cancer who are looking for support.
While I’m on placement with Shine, I will continue to jointly run the local Dorset Network which includes organising meet-ups and events, welcoming new members, supporting alumni to move on as they approach 50, and developing a local ‘Plus One’ Network. But I will also be working on a number of other projects, including developing a directory of useful services for Shine members, collecting evidence of the current needs of young adults with cancer, and working on a diversity project to ensure that Shine is reaching all communities affected by cancer at a young age. In addition, I will be at the Manchester Great Escape as a peer supporter, and supporting the delivery of a number of workshops. On my first day of placement I headed to London for a training day for Shine’s Network Leaders. I was very pleased to find out that the core skills and values necessary for the role are identical to those required of a social worker: to be passionate about helping others, supportive, empowering, friendly, empathetic, caring, respectful, and to demonstrate integrity and trustworthiness.
I’m really excited about my placement because I feel like it’s important work that will make a genuine difference. Personally, since I’ve started on placement I feel so much more confident in my ability to function as a (relatively!) normal human being again. Being on placement in a cancer support charity has also, perversely, taken the focus off my own cancer and also given me a new-found purpose in life again. One of the only possible challenges that I predict is keeping on the right side of that fine boundary line, but for the next few months I’ll be making sure that I step back and look at all situations with my ‘Student Social Worker’ hat on.
I would love to hear from you! Maybe you’ve got feedback from a personal experience of interacting with a social worker or trying to navigate the benefits system? Maybe Shine has been an invaluable support and you’d be lost without them? Perhaps you can relate to my feelings of returning to study or work after your diagnosis? Whatever it is, please do drop me a line!
You can get in touch with Rosie by emailing her at email@example.com.