About five years ago, a few of us at Shine HQ were having a coffee and chatting about why the UK didn’t have a conference for younger adults with cancer. After looking around a bit more (and confirming that there was indeed no such event), we took a deep breath and decided to do it ourselves!
We’re excited to be bringing back Shine Connect for a fourth time, for a gathering that’s bigger and better than ever before. We’ve kept the stuff that participants have liked (hello therapy dogs!) and added new and different sessions to cover topics that you don’t typically see covered anywhere else!
What can I expect?
Shine Connect is a friendly conference – it’s got some conference-y type activities (like panel discussions and workshops), but it’s also an event where you’ll be able to meet other young adults with cancer. This year, we’re holding a pre-conference coffee & croissant session. If you’re coming alone or are just feeling a bit nervous about spending the day with strangers, register for this session! You’ll be met by some of our friendly volunteers who will introduce you to other conference participants. By the time we kick off at 10am, you’ll feel like you’re with old friends!
And no, there isn’t a dress code (just wear what you feel comfortable in!).
What kinds of sessions will there be?
Every year, we survey our volunteers and online community to come up with a list of topics for Shine Connect. We then set out looking for experts that can cover those topics – it’s never an easy task but we give it our best! This year, we are super excited to have a number of never-seen-before discussions on some important topics:
Alternative routes to parenthood: We’ve often run sessions on fertility after cancer (and we’re still doing it this year!) but we know that a lot of those we support would like to become parents even if they can’t have their children naturally. We’ve lined up an amazing panel who are going to talk about egg and sperm donation, adoption and surrogacy. We looked far and wide for someone who has had cancer AND a baby via surrogate but they were very few and far between! We do, however, have the lovely Ben coming to speak about surrogacy – he’s just had a baby with his partner and is super knowledgeable about the surrogacy process in the UK and abroad. And our other speakers are experts too!
Man Up! We’re very happy that the award-winner trainer Paul DuBois is coming to Shine Connect and running a session especially for men on managing stress and anger. There won’t be any sitting around in a circle sharing (promise!) but it will be a great opportunity to talk to other men going through cancer and think about how you might be able to understand and manage the tough emotions that cancer can bring up at little bit better.
Menopause: Whether you’ve had a cancer that directly impacts your hormones or not, many women who go through cancer treatment either end up in menopause or facing early menopause as a result – and it’s not talked about enough! In this session we’ll have a panel talking about how they’ve managed early menopause and we’ll also be hearing from Dr. Rebecca Lewis, a GP with special expertise in menopause (and no, we didn’t
know that was a thing either!).
As if all of that wasn’t enough, we’ve also got sessions on:
- Getting moving after cancer, with Gemma Hillier-Moses of MOVE Charity
- Supporting children through a parent’s diagnosis, with Dr. Caroline Leek of the Fruit Fly Collective
- A chance to get your boogie on with Emily Jenkins of Move, Dance, Feel
- Dating after cancer (where we will discuss at which point you might consider telling your partner that you’ve had cancer!)
- Fertility after cancer
- A session on relationships and how they change after a cancer diagnosis.
- We’ve also go a session especially for Plus Ones – if your partner, family member or friend would like to come along, they can join this session and meet others supporting young adults with cancer.
And to close the day, we’ve got the fabulous Dr. Stuart Anderson coming to speak about chemo brain. Can’t quite remember what that is? Well, it’s the cognitive changes that a lot of people experience as a result of cancer and cancer treatment – and Dr. Anderson, a neuropsychologist, will be talking us through why it happens as well as looking at ways that we can manage it.
Anything else going on?
Why yes! We’ll have free massages and a virtual reality pod where you can try to climb a mountain or chill out by a beach. And by popular demand, the therapy dogs will be back (though, as always, we’ll keep them in a separate room so if you don’t like dogs, don’t worry!). We’ll also have a marketplace with lots of other great organisations who support cancer patients.
And of course, Shine staff and volunteers will be on hand to tell you more about Shine and the work we do.
Sounds great! How do I register?
Simply head to HERE and register! You can sign up for the sessions you’d like to attend, let us know about your dietary requirements and also ask questions that you’d like to see answered in the session.
Tickets are £25 for young adults with cancer and the friends/family/partners. If you’re on benefits, we do have some bursary places available, as well as some travel bursaries. Just drop us a line at email@example.com.
Still feeling unsure? Neil, one of Shine’s volunteers said this after he came to Shine Connect 2018:
Definitely go for it! Shine is such a lovely, friendly community. I was chatting to people all day who had come to their first event and were nervous but everyone made them feel so welcome. I think everyone that goes remembers how nervous they were before their first event so they go out of their way to help others feel comfortable. What have you got to lose?!
Hope to see you there!